Imbambano kwi-ezimbalwa, kuyimfuneko ububi

Musa worry, luzele noko lezempilo

I-romanticcomment budlelwane ngu kuyanqaphazekaarely elide icimile river abo azithobele kuhamba kunye komoyaKwaye kwenzeka ukuba ke, kubalulekile ngoko ke kakhulu ngcono. Ube kanti ezimbalwa, nayo ukwamkela yokuba disputes, iimpikiswano imiceli-mngeni kwaye kuya kuba yinxalenye yobomi. Nibe bakholelwa ukuba umtshato wakho waba kwi emngciphekweni ye-abyss. Kaninzi silibale ukuba umntu ngamnye ufumana ezahluka-hlukileyo. Kufuneka tastes, iminqweno, umdla kwaye opinions ezingekho necessarily efanayo njengoko abo yakho lover.

Enye ukuqwalasela ngononophelo kunye iqabane lakho

Ngaphezu koko, kubalulekile mhlawumbi ngenxa yesi sizathu ukuba oko kwenziwa kuwe mnyama. Kuya kwaziswa a umoya ka-freshness, newness ukuba izakubeka abanye ulwimilanguage kwi ubomi bakho. Ngoko ke, kutheni lento izakuba ngenye indlela emva abanye ixesha. Ngubani ngokwenene ifuna i-qabane kunye efanayo opinions, kunye akukho personality. Umntu, ngenxa yokuba lo boredom. Kuya kufuneka ke ngoko kuba wavuma ukuba ubudlelwane alinakukhuselwa olugqibeleleyo, kwaye ukuba ngamnye iqabane lakho unelungelo yakhe imbono yakhe iindlela ngokwenza izinto. Oku eyona ndlela ukugcina eyiyeyakhe personality kwaye ukukhula kwi budlelwane ukuba uza kuqinisekisa ukuba siya kukwazi ukuhlala yinyaniso ukuba oneself. Oko kungenzeka ukuba ezimbalwa baba weva ukuba ummangaliso kwi-everyday ubomi, kodwa kuphela kwi-bedroom, lento ngokulula na ityala. Yena ufuna kuba petted kwi-esinjalo ngendlela, naye uya bakhetha ukuba ngesondo budlelwane ngu kokuya kwi enye indlela. Eziliqela frustrations ezivelayo ukusuka kule imeko, amaqabane ingaba ke disappointed. Omnye kufuneka ukumbule ukuba nkqu ukuba ezimbalwa neeyantlukwano ukuba ezahlukeneyo kwethu, kusoloko kusenzeka, ngokusebenzisa unxibelelwano, ukufumana enye. Akuyi kuba ngamaxesha onke ezenzeka emhlabeni ukuba uza kuqinisekisa ukuba omabini amaqabane aphuma ukufumana-akhawunti zabo. Akukho namnye unako kuba mfundisi kwi-unguye le miyalelo kukuba ukuba ukho nako ukuyenza iintlangaaniso. Kubalulekile ukwazi kakuhle ngokwakho ukuze bakwazi ukuhlola nokuba zethu reactions ingaba kancinci kakhulu excessive.

Kubalulekile ukuba buza: ukuba ngenene kuya kukunceda kakhulu, koko ke ngoko kakhulu umbane.

Uvavanyo lwe zoko ka-imbambano khusela kuthi ukususela putting-oli kwi-umlilo. Abaninzi kongquzulwano kusenokuba kugqitywe ngokulula ngakumbi, ngokucacileyo ngu admitting kwezabo wrongs, kwaye yi-putting ngokwakhe kwi-imigca enqamlezeneyo lomnye.

I-accumulation ka-umsindo eziliqela disputes unsettled iza kuphela yandisa zoko wokuza ungquzulwano. Kanjalo ukuba abe avoided Ukuba unengxaki tendency ukuba iyangxola ukuze beve yakho entsha ye imboniselo kwi impixano, thatha isithuba.

Kubalulekile iselwa kunokwenzeka ukuba yakho emotions ukuthathela phezu kwaye ukuba ngelishwa, ezinye ingoma ulwim ukwenza kwabo beva. Kubalulekile zichaza ukuba kutheni na injongo le meko onayo kuwe nomsindo.

Yena ufuna ukwenza i-icandelo lomboniso ngoba emva kwexesha okanye ngenye ngenxa yokuba uzive ongahoywanga ngokufaneleyo xa oko arrives. Nokuchaza yakho emotions Yiba soloko usebenzisa i -"mna".

Ukusetyenziswa"wena"accuser ubeka i-iqabane lakho kwi defensive, kwaye ibe ngenisa indawo attack. Ukwenzeka ngeli xesha ukusombulula ingxabano. Akukho nto worse ukuba philisa a balwe xa omnye ubani tendency ukuba sulk kwaye lingabikho olugqityiweyo cwaka. Kuba vula i-ngxoxo Kubaluleke kakhulu disrespectful. Omabini amaqabane aphuma kufuneka mamela ngenyameko ukuze settle zonke imbambano. Lumkela ukuba imbambano kusenokuba isempilweni kwi romanticcomment budlelwane. Oko kubonakalisa ukuba sisebenzisa a ezimbalwa, kodwa njengoko u-ecacileyo kwabanye abantu. Musa kuba kakhulu demanding lomnye, akuyomfuneko ukuba ndivakalise imfazwe lonke ixesha blunder sizibophelele.