Bravo ukuba inkcazelo liyakwazi olu luhlu
Ndiyabulela kuba ekubeni athethe i-cooptations"copinages"ukuba gangrènent i company ngezi toxic zabucalaNdinguye i-ingcali kwi-ukufunyaniswa ye-nabagqwethekileyo, narcissistic. Wokuqala kwaye ifani ingaba ngokwaneleyo kuba nam. Zoqinisekiso yi-umnxeba, i-imeyili. Emva amabini iminyaka engama-corporate amava, ndine ezingabonwayo njengoko oddballs njenge nabo kwaye oku asikuko ukulungele ukutshintsha ngenxa yokuba ingaba le bonke. Kuphela ku sep wakhokela zonke PN ingaba okuthile sociable ehlangene. Bubonke ziindleko tyhefu ukuba uyakwazi uphephe ngezi zenzo ka-profiling, banako ngelishwa get jikelele ukuba ngokunika ubuxoki iimpendulo. Ndadala wam owakhe indlela, i-PN ufumana umntu ukuba ° kuzo zonke yayo uzuko. Ngabo eneneni kakhulu predictable Njengoko ndithi kakhulu rhoqo: i-ndawo kuya kukukhusela. Unga fumana into endinayo ukunikela apha. Ngovuyo ukunceda executives, HR, recruiters, umthetho firms kwaye iinkampani zabucala. Eziquqa ukufunyaniswa, ezinzima kwaye ngobuchule.
I-PN umphathi ngu absolutely ukuba abe avoided
Yithi"hayi"ezi killers ka-umsebenzi omhle, ezilungileyo isimo, impilo kwaye kunikwe yakho njengesiqhelo. A kunokwenzeka impendulo: assertiveness, oko kukuthi, ukuba ikhusele ilizwe labo amalungelo, ukuthi akukho calement, ngaphandle aggressiveness, nkqu ukuba ayikho lula. Noko ke unako ikhusele kwayo hayi falter, ngenxa yokuba nabagqwethekileyo narcissist ngu daunting. Molo, Enkosi, yonke into wathi, esihle kakhulu synthesis kwaye uhlalutyo. ubuqu, mna graduation a isiphumo, kodwa mna rhoqo khangela yam nabo kuwa phantsi yakhe iimboniselo zabucala, kubalulekile ukuba yenza kum okubi kakhulu, ndiyakholelwa Okulungileyo comment, ngelishwa, kengoko tshintsha oluntu indalo, kubalulekile ukuba hic. Mna react ukuba oku inqaku ukuze ndibe nokufumana foolish. BONKE enkulu iinkampani ndibeke endaweni VOLUNTARILY olu hlobo personality.
Oko corresponds ezimbini iisenti ezingama yabo okulindelweyo: akukho uluvo uvelwano, ilungele ukuba ikhusele, umzimba kwaye umphefumlo, inzala ka - inkampani ukuba iziqinisekiso kuye yakhe loluntu indawo, liar, manipulator, ingcali kwi-indima-ukudlala umdlalo, olugqibeleleyo ukuba ukuxhaphaze zokusebenza abanye ngaphandle ukuba oku iindleko a ngakumbi kwi company, ikhona kwi ZONKE fronts ka-iselula lentengiso kwaye limele kakuhle kakhulu i-balinde chiourme ruthless.
Ke luxanduva yeshishini kangangoko kubalulekile kuba voters ukuba ndigwebe mental health yayo abameli.
Fumana i-fact ingaba akukho ndlela luxanduva actor ngenxa yalo Yokugqibela incopho, iinkampani ukuba ingaba"hayi akhuphe ixabiso"iza kuqhubeka recruit olu hlobo yabucala."Ukuba ngaba musa seriously kuqaliswe isicwangciso somgaqo-intshukumo eradicate oku ingozi, i-phenomenon liza kunyuka ukubonelelwa kunye bonke attendant imingcipheko ukuba uza accumulate."I-phenomenon ukuba iyakhula exponentially, ukulandela igophe ye-ngxwaba, umsebenzi ilahleko, layoffs, njalo-njalo, kwaye ezinye injustices ukuba ukubonelelwa ngabantu experiencing ekhoyo society.
Kwaye oku ngakumbi, ukuba perversion narcissistic yi yokhuselo ye-survival (psychic survival). Ukuba"nabagqwethekileyo narcissist"yenza havoc kwiintsuku ezingama, xa kutheni kwi-amaziko apho oku uhlobo umntu unako ukusebenza kunye impunity ngaphandle ngonaphakade ekubeni bothered. Sisebenzisa? kakhulu kude ukuthathela komlinganiselo ye-magnitude ingxaki.
